"The personalised support and tools I've adopted have been transformative in both day-to-day work and my approach to studies."
       -Vanessa J., Administrative Assistant

During weekly video calls, I’ll guide and support you in achieving your goals. Through coaching, mentoring, and actionable strategies, we’ll work together to overcome challenges and ensure consistent progress.

You’ll have access to my mobile, email, and social media for ongoing support, keeping you on track and providing help whenever needed.

Tailored programmes like this typically cost £1,600–£3,000.
I’ve designed my 12-Week Bespoke Transformational Coaching Programme to deliver exceptional value at a more accessible price: £1,527.

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Together, we’ll create a bespoke plan that flexibly adapts to your needs throughout the programme.

Throughout the programme, you can expect to gain deep insights that remove any doubts and make you feel empowered to stay accountable to yourself and your goals.
Along the way, you'll reduce anxiety and stress, build confidence and productivity, and develop transferable life skills to achieve your personal and professional dreams.

A discovery session is a relaxed and open conversation where you can share what’s on your mind and explore the changes you’d like to make.

It’s also a chance to learn how my 12-Week Transformational Coaching Programme can support you in increasing self-acceptance, holistic well-being, and confidence, while helping you overcome self-doubt.

You’ll gain valuable insights into how you can move toward your dreams and ambitions. More importantly, it’s a safe space to explore whether this programme feels right for you.

I look forward to chatting with you! 😊

 

Have you ever had the feeling that you are not comfortable in your own skin that somehow you didn’t grow into it the way others seem to?
That others know something you don’t, that you are from a different planet, that people don’t get you? Have you ever been told that you are lazy, disruptive, worthless, or don’t care?

Growing into my own skin
Right up to my mid-forties, my life was extremely challenging. I did not know that my unusual strengths and weaknesses were connected with a 'bouquet' of neurodivergence. My reactions to feeling confused and out of sync with myself and society had a significant impact on my personal, family, and social life, as well as my education and career.

Early Life
My home life was unhappy. No matter how much I tried to be good, loving, and helpful, it was never enough. Primary school felt like an out-of-body experience, and secondary school felt like torture on a daily basis.

School teachers agreed I was intelligent; so why couldn’t I sit still, engage, do my homework, or behave? They came to the same conclusion as my parents: this child was a lost cause.
When classes weren't outright boring, I found school extremely perplexing, and I couldn't see the point of what I was asked to do. I daydreamed about life being messy, challenging, and exciting. It was obvious to me that my point of view was absurd and a bad example for other children.

First Experiences of Independence
College revived my ambitious spirits somewhat, and eventually I managed to scrape the minimum points for a university course. Leaving my disapproving parents behind, I ventured out, as poor as a church mouse, but full of hope. Though rich in life lessons, my first bid for freedom did not go well.
I struggled with compulsive eating and mental health issues to the point where I where I battled with suicidal ideation. I did not have the confidence or academic skills to succeed. I didn’t dare ask for help, fearing it would confirm my worst fear—that I was fundamentally worthless. I left half-way through the course.

My ambitions and struggles for meaning were constantly at odds with a sense of hopelessness, chronic anxiety, and panic attacks. I was an emotional wreck, and my fear of failure or rejection severely limited my options.

New Horizons
I started therapy, got married, divorced, and, with three children in tow, moved to a different country. I had to learn its language and eventually built a new life for myself. I found a vocation I loved and that provided ample opportunity to use my creative, practical, and reasoning abilities. I discovered I was good at observing what people in my niche really needed and providing that support. I also learned that I had a talent for writing courses and training people in my subject.

My confidence to achieve things slowly grew. However, I wanted to learn more about my difficulties and how to overcome them. I addressed my compulsive eating issues and began to spiritualize my life. I needed a lot of help to confront my traumas and learn to become more aware of what caused high anxiety and how to deal with panic attacks.

Returning to Education
15 years of self-employment brought me a great deal of satisfaction but little financial gain. I decided to go back to university. This time, I was wiser and more experienced, but still emotionally vulnerable and academically inexperienced. Academic reading and writing still felt like torment, and my coping strategies seemed to strangle me. I was finally diagnosed with dyslexia and visual stress and received some support.

Realizing that I meant business, my tutors encouraged me to use my natural abilities to succeed: my ambition, a good dose of curiosity, and a burning desire to make a difference. That someone believed in me gave me the courage to throw all the traditional do's and don’ts to the wind and instead listen to myself.

It became soon clear that traditional learning methods did not inspire me. I looked for inspiration from others who, like me, had little chance of succeeding in the traditional education system by using traditional learning methods and who had found their own solutions.To help myself, I designed a system based on goal visualisation and learning methods that cut through all the inessential "stuff" and concentrated on priorities.

Educational Success
My personal self-help program was incredibly effective. In addition to teaching me how to prioritise my attention, it also taught me self-respect, the humility and trust to listen attentively to my teachers, and the ability to plan and visualise outcomes with clarity. I finished my undergraduate education with a first-class honours degree in Psychology, which opened all kinds of interesting and useful doors.

I wanted to share what I had discovered and build on it to help others facing similar challenges. For the next 15 years, I worked at a university with students of all ages, genders, and walks of life. I designed and delivered presentations and programs for both students and professionals. Observation and feedback confirmed the soundness of the foundation stones of my self-help programme; it has the potential to facilitate transformative individual journeys for people who think and learn differently.

Early in my employment, I completed a Master's degree in Education and a qualification for teaching at the higher education level to round out my educational experience and learn to serve even more effectively.I created and delivered presentations and programmes for students and professionals alike. Observation and feedback confirmed the soundness of the foundation stones of my self-help programme; it has the potential to facilitate transformative individual journeys for people who think and learn differently.

Personal development
My personal transformation journey was ongoing. The dyslexia diagnosis didn’t account for my restlessness, mood swings, or chronic anxiety. Over time, I began to understand I had co-occurring specific learning differences. As more and more pieces of the puzzle fell into place, I learned to feel compassion and respect for myself. I did not remain a self-doubting victim of my circumstances. Instead, I had made a habit of confronting my difficult realities, overcoming numerous obstacles, now working and serving in a profession that I adored.

When I finally realised I had suffered all my life from attention issues, it was a huge relief. Now I learned to consciously handle the inattention as well as the impulsivity. Eventually, I confronted the roots of my social anxiety and feelings of inadequacy, realizing I had many traits of autism, which contributed to my chronic fatigue syndrome and burnouts.

Today, I still face many obstacles daily. As someone diagnosed later in life, I’ve missed numerous opportunities. However, apart from catching up on many skills, what has changed most dramatically is my attitude towards myself, others, and life as a whole. Slowly but surely, I learned to grow into my own skin and feel comfortable with who I am and in sync with who I want to be. I now unequivocally welcome into my life that wonderful, messy, ever-developing creative spirit of which I dreamed as a child. Eventually, I left my job because I wanted to serve more fully by offering my services as a transformational coach and entrepreneur.

Now, I am in a position to use my personal and professional experience to give my full attention to helping others who think, learn and feel differently to grow into their own skin and achieve their unique potential.

If you found my story inspiring and would like to arrange a video call,
book a free discovery session.